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Roll out the harem, the Muslim cometh

Mogamat Zain Benjamin, better known as Hadji Bucks, presides over a small island of Islam in the suburbs of Cape Town in a house shiny with peach tiles and illuminated Koranic scripts which he fires up with a remote. It is full of women in hajibs, who pad about with bare feet, bringing refreshments, some curtly dismissed as not being quite right. He has 10 children, five daughters and five sons and, after much deliberation and the aid of a calculator, it is estimated that there are 31 grandchildren.

Are all the children from one mother? The answer: not exactly. But they were all brought up as one family.

In his 70s, Bucks is a ladies’ man, smelling of sweet cologne. He says: “I just love girls,” as his wife sits benignly by, engrossed in a hospital drama on an oversized plasma screen.

(Full Article here)

The image of the lascivious Arab, opulent in his capacity for violence and decadence is promulgated by Western media, blurring the lines in the minds of Westerners between Arabs and Muslims. The rapaciousness of Arab men for women, have fuelled many a film, book and opinion about Arab culture. Orientalism is the term used to describe the blurriness between what is ascribed to Arabs and Muslims in Western media. In the extract above, Bucks is a Muslim man living in Cape Town. Far, far from the Middle East and the usual haunts of Arab men wielding swords and spitting out women like used bubblegum, Bucks is a South African Muslim. He’s typecast here as a man of decadence with harem like sensibilities.

Lin Sampson is one of the most talented writers in the country. Her features on the more colourful facets  of Cape Town life are witty and informative without pandering to the banal. She is one of those rare writers who brings forth the sort of objectivity that charms one side of the coin while mocking at it for the other. Her characterisation of Bucks though, I find  unfortunately Orientalist and irrelevant.  The reader is left puzzled about there being ‘barefooted women in hijab padding about his house, bringing refreshments, some curtly dismissed as not being quite right.’   What is being dismissed for being not right, the women or the drinks?  Is the ambiguity accidental?

Sampson simply regurgitates the women are chattel theme of Orientalist discourse. The assumed powerlessness of a Muslim woman is conveyed by describing Benjamin’s wife as ‘benign’. Sampson only sees these women against the image of Bucks, not as people in their own right. Bucks’ life, however fraught with a bevy of women at his beck and call should not be relegated to a scene from the Arabian Nights. Granted, Bucks is a rather interesting character but why then not compare Bucks to Hugh Hefner? His deepfreeze jam-packed with crayfish and the mammoth plasma screens would compare well with the toys of the Playboy mansion. But instead his Muslimness, conveyed by his frequent trips to Mecca and the remote-controlled Koranic scripts qualifies him to be seen as a randy, old Arab.

While issues of integration have come to dominate discourse about Muslims living in Europe, South African Muslims conversely are well established in mainstream society.  To suggest however that Bucks presides over an ‘island of Islam’ is rather perplexing. It further entrenches misconceptions of Muslims  relegating them to a league of otherliness. And Bucks? Well, he’s just trying to win a singing competition, by any means necessary.

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Chained to the stove and jabbering to my clique- I’m no more liberated than my great grandmother was.

Gossip, chatter, nag, rabbit, yak and natter- These are terms used to refer to women’s conversations, implying that women’s talk is superfluous and rather pointless. Women’s talk is often described in terms seldom used about men’s talk. Men, it would seem, attain significance in brevity. Research has shown that men, on the whole, talk far more than women. The stereotype, however, continues to thrive.

Cell C have recently developed a niche product called ‘Winc‘, ‘women incorporated’. A mobile phone package designed specifically for women, ’empowered by Cell C’. I’m not sure what the numbers are like but hot on the heels of the First for Women insurance products women seem to be a lucrative market. I like the First for Women advertisements, they are quirky without being patronising. Cell C however left me feeling disenfranchised. Truth is, I do not appreciate any empowerment from a cell minion. Women can empower themselves, acknowledge that and then I’ll think about parting with my cash.

Cell C’s pricey print campaign, sported a bare-shouldered blonde in an uncomfortable looking pose attempting a wink. Beneath the yellow tressed one, ‘Now all our favourite things in one cellular package’. The use of the word our instead of your is clever copywriting. It is an attempt at the creation of a feeling of empathy and collaboration between Cell C and the target audience. Especially clever when one considers that women purportedly desire from their relationships, collaboration, intimacy, support and approval while men, conversely, allegedly place a greater premium on status and independence and are less concerned about inequality in their relationships.

But how exactly does a package for women differ from the usual stock?

  • Winc is the first and only cellular package designed just for women and empowered by Cell C. So, speak your heart out, connect and tune into your clique when you really need to with WINCThe assumption that women talk more than men and would thus require extra text messages to send to the women in their ‘clique’ rankles. I feel like I’ve been spoken down to. The last time I was accused of having a clique I was in high school.

  • ‘Women in charge: hot tips and advice You have access to www.winc.mobi, your very own, exclusive mobi site that offers discounted content such as discounted content on recipes…..’ Oh the joy. Of course that’s where I’m supposed to be; chained to the stove while jabbering to my ‘clique’.

  • ‘Women in care: toll free calls to Lifeline. You can call Lifeline, free of charge. LifeLine offers confidential, emotional counselling for gender violence, rape or any other issue that’s getting you down.’ Why enumerate the reasons one would would want to call Lifeline for? I’m sure if I’m suicidal or if I’ve just been raped I’ll thank Cell C for not billing me.

Frankly my dears, I’d rather slit my wrists.

From Sarkozy’s ruminations about enforcing a ban on the burqa in France, to Al Azhar’s proposed ban on the Niqab in Egypt, right down to Cezanne Visser’s double D’s, men in superior positions in patriarchal societies continue to dictate how women and womanhood is manifested in public spaces.

In the words of Marianne Thamm writing in the Sunday Times Lifestyle some weeks back,

‘When little girls begin to lose interest in the world around them and show signs of becoming preoccupied by what they see in the mirror, it is time to act. Get Visser in to do some motivational speaking. With her new outfit courtesy of the Department of Correctional Services and her former DD implants in a display case, she will serve as a fantastic deterrent to young women tempted to shed those unwanted brains in order to win the approval of men.’

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Jumping on the Sami bandwagon

MJ and Bibi Aysha have both done excellent posts on the concert. I was commenting on Bibi Aysha’s post and found myself getting into a lengthy monologue so I decided to blog it instead. I enjoyed the concert but had some reservations much like Nooj, MJ and Bibi Aysha have aired. Principally it was a marketing campaign, a very expensive one. I’m not a marketing person, I did some introductory PR and advertising, so my knowledge on the subject is somewhat pedestrian. Armed with this pedestrian marketing knowledge, I think, the concerts, as a marketing exercise, were very well executed. I’m tempted to transfer my two cents worth to Oasis (WIP, your earnest entreaties are finally paying off). So kudos to Oasis on that score. However, I think the Oasis man came across rather strongly against the radio stations. My opinion, it was poor PR. He was just about inciting all out warfare. Oasis does provide the financial updates on those stations he merrily slated as not allowing open debate. Those radio stations do have a substantial following which Oasis would do well not to alienate.

I think the difficulties people had interpreting the concert were evident in some of the dress choices. Formal/Informal? Hijab/No hijab? There were some interesting choices. I sat there Saturday, watching the comings and goings, waiting for the thing to start, and I realised that it was due in some part to overt and covert identities. We’re not exactly the most closely knit community, there are some deep ridges between us in some places, but on the whole we’re able to live as a communal whole because our differences are not always overtly displayed. Whether you listen to Junaid Jamshed or Sami Yusuf, or both, or neither, it’s generally a private affair. Suddenly it’s catapulted into a public arena, and we’re scrambling to choose sides.

 

 

 

 

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The girls who call ‘rape’

 

There is no difference between being raped

and going head first through a windshield

except that afterward you are afraid

not of cars

but half the human race.

Marge Piercy

Watching the afternoon dwindle away from my bedroom window the other day, Cousin Flighty and I spoke about, politics (the kind generated from a girls high school), plans for the future (the December holiday), how I should be getting married soon so that she can get a new wardrobe and then back to the less significant parts of school, studying for exams. She left me aghast with this, ‘My timetable’s going to rape me.’

In my other life, y’know the much neglected non-blogging one, I’m meant to be putting a microscope to the way my carefully selected pocket of society manipulates language to serve its own nefarious ends since there exists a close relationship between the historically and socially determined circumstances in which a community lives and the language it uses. Basically, the society we live in is reflected in the language we use. So rape, it would seem then, is so much a part of this society, so much a norm, so passively accepted, that the word has now taken on another shade of meaning. Cousin Flighty insists everybody is using it, ‘We don’t mean rape like rape but like we mean it’s really bad.’ Zapiro’s infamous cartoon showed Jacob Zuma about to rape the justice system. Surely there’s something insidiously amiss in a society where rape is so passively accepted in public discourse and used with such indiscriminate aplomb. Is it bound to raise awareness of rape as a crime, as an injustice, as oppression?